Do you foster a crowd or a tribe in your customer relationships? The difference is ownership, care, and defense.
Visualize a crowd. There are crowds all over the place. We’ve all been in the midst of them. In a crowd, people tend to their own business, think about they have to do, typically look down as they walk or move forward. Picture a crowded street in Manhattan. Each individual is there as an individual, each owns his or her own agenda and space; each cares for their own needs.
Now think about a tribe. The word tribe is typically used to describe a community. But not just any community – one united by common traits or interests. In a tribe, people are connected to each other, watch out for each other, look around as they move around and interact with each other. In a tribe, an individual is part of a whole, shares a common agenda, and cares for each other’s needs.
And there’s one more huge difference. A tribe comes after you if you mess with one of their own.
So I go back to my original question. Do you foster a crowd or a tribe in your customer relationships?
- Do you treat your customers as a crowd that transact or a community of customers that share a common business or personal need or purpose?
Big Star Performer: Starbucks, who created a business around community, not coffee, and built that into the design and atmosphere of their stores.
Small Star Performer: “Pilates with a Purpose,” a weekly Pilates class at my church that sends 100% of class fees to the Haitian Timoun Foundation to build a better world there.
- Do you watch out for yourself or for your customers? Do you want prospects and customers because they’ll help you – or because you can help them?
Big Star Performer: Zappos, an online shoe and clothing store, which offers free shipping both ways and a 365-day return policy. By helping their customers, they’re helping themselves.
Smaller Star Performer: My bagel guy in Manhattan, who operates a street vendor cart. It takes about two visits to become a regular; then he remembers your order and prepares it while you plunk down your money and make your own change from the quarters lined up on the counter. He has a line about 20 customers long throughout the morning.
- Do you look at your customer experience from an internal perspective or from an external customer perspective?
Big Star Performer: Nordstrom, which engages customers in conversation about why they are in the store and for what they are looking.
Small Star Performer: My dentist, who has a small office that is warm and inviting, whose receptionist calls you by name, and who goes the extra mile to solve her patients’ challenges on their terms.
- And finally, do you go after someone who messes with your own? Do you show them that you consider them a valued member of your tribe through your actions?
Big Star Performer: Ritz Carlton, whose ladies and gentlemen welcome regular guests “home” when they arrive and then make “home” happen during the entire visit. That’s a hard act for any other hotel to follow.
Small Star Performer: My hair stylist, who calls if I haven’t made my regular appointment to see why and ensure I’m back in within the following week, even if that means arriving early, staying late, or coming in on a day off to accommodate my schedule.
You don’t have to be a big business to have a tribe. But you do have to be intentional about your mindset and actions. Crowds will come and go...tribes will stay and grow. So which would you rather have…a crowd or a tribe?
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